When someone else is crying

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A toddler may comfort another child who is crying — a real first move outward, and one that is easy to miss or interrupt. Letting the impulse run rather than managing it is most of what encourages it.

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🛡️ Never push a toddler toward a distressed child, and never hold them there. Some children get overwhelmed by another's crying rather than moved by it, and that is not a failure of kindness — step back with them if that is what happens.

Source: ZeroToThreeFrom Baby to Big Kid: Month 18

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🗣 Something not right here?

When someone else is crying

Wait to see what they do on their own

The first move, if it comes, comes without prompting. Prompting replaces it with compliance.